tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post5217269542884639398..comments2023-08-14T01:32:44.033-07:00Comments on Blogfully Yours: When Doctors Tell You the Painful TruthSummerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10558653884230501875noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-9146106406826113122009-01-25T23:09:00.000-08:002009-01-25T23:09:00.000-08:00Summer, I love you so much! I'm sorry you have to ...Summer, <BR/>I love you so much! I'm sorry you have to go through this! I know you don't think this right now but I am here for you no matter what! Please please know that! You have been here for me whenever I have needed you, I want to do the same for you!Stacihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01363994127742036102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-603966568698517332009-01-25T18:28:00.000-08:002009-01-25T18:28:00.000-08:00The next time I drink wine...I'll toss one back fo...The next time I drink wine...I'll toss one back for you.<BR/><BR/>Do the Best you can. And, of all the cliches you don't need to hear, I'll pick this one:<BR/>Never give up Hope.C.S. Perryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13788814137559471709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-87589211387157474292009-01-24T22:10:00.000-08:002009-01-24T22:10:00.000-08:00I'm ususally a lazy blog reader I don't often vent...I'm ususally a lazy blog reader I don't often venture out past my ladies on my list but tonight I did. <BR/>I'm so glad I did! I'm 44, with no children and have walked in your shoes over and over. <BR/>I have had the Pooh Sweatshirt wearing mom get all up in my grill about "why don't you have kids?" <BR/>"Don't you like kids?" Others (some known, some strangers) saying "you just never seemed like a kid person" and oh the list of topics goes on and on. <BR/>I have heard it all. I have cried, wished, prayed, researched and have done whatever else I thought I needed to do and it never took away that feeling that I missed the boat. When the reality was......I never got to choose if I wanted to get on the boat or not. Something bigger than me made the decision for me. <BR/>Just last week my dear friend who is single and 40 just found out she too would never be able to have kids. She has been down in the dumps for a couple weeks. Yes, we all know about the treatments and options but that isn't the point. The point is......we don't get to have the experience that we were put on this earth for. People with kids just don't get that. It's like we don't get to go to the next level of adulthood.<BR/>Your still young and one day you will find out what your destiney really is. In the mean time.....it's hard and I hear ya sister!<BR/><BR/>I didn't get married until I was 41and my husband has no children either. We have talked about it until we can't talk anymore, we have stashed money, and answered all the questions from family we are going to answer! One day we looked at each other and said "we are ok with not having kids, we are just going to live our life differently!" We had breakfest that morning and went and bought a HUGE Travel Trailer! We now travel as we like, go where we like, when we like, and have the cutest dog in the world. <BR/>Now when people ask about when are we going to have kids we just simply say "oh yeah, about that, we spent the adoption money on a trailer!"<BR/>I get to be Auntie Mame to my niece and all my friends kids. I get to have all white furniture and carpet and fancy guest towels in the bathroom. All things my friends would give their eye teeth for! ;-)<BR/>Be sad, it's ok!<BR/>Thanks for letting me share. I hope it helps one day.<BR/>TimiTimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14006554991434528237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-9312078607100404892009-01-24T15:13:00.000-08:002009-01-24T15:13:00.000-08:00I love you, honey.I love you, honey.Sarah Bellumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16536648074258319524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-57962939297682194702009-01-24T14:56:00.000-08:002009-01-24T14:56:00.000-08:00I love you!karinaI love you!<BR/>karinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-36489204624470070572009-01-24T08:10:00.000-08:002009-01-24T08:10:00.000-08:00It's harder when life doesn't give us choices. Wa...It's harder when life doesn't give us choices. Want to borrow my darling 9 year old daughter on a bad day to help with the news?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-11222191904561586102009-01-23T17:05:00.000-08:002009-01-23T17:05:00.000-08:00I am sorry.I am sorry.Jeremyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04059673299496149227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-50551043151856255432009-01-23T08:27:00.000-08:002009-01-23T08:27:00.000-08:00I don't know what to say Ma'am as "I'm sorry" does...I don't know what to say Ma'am as "I'm sorry" doesn't cut it. I can't say I understand...for rather obvious reasons.<BR/><BR/>Although I am (moderately) happy that you have learned to let go of bitterness largely. Although I can't imagine it gets any easier.<BR/><BR/>Thoughts go with you.<BR/><BR/>- KendallAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7528479592815054508.post-56859908604393006992009-01-23T07:40:00.000-08:002009-01-23T07:40:00.000-08:00Wow, that's some heavy stuff. So sorry for the ba...Wow, that's some heavy stuff. So sorry for the bad news, but thank god for doctors who don't beat around the bush, huh?zipbagofboneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02845215266169983575noreply@blogger.com